I hope you feel better soon. Our little one was in SCN and depending on the nurse on duty they were all funny about different things... one nurse didn't like me holding her all the time, we stayed with our baby 24/7 and they were always asking people to go away and leave them to it, once the parents leave they would complain about them being gone!! Weird... anyway... I would say they cannot keep you away from YOUR baby, stay fast to that it is not an option you not being in there with the baby, offer to wear masks and wash your hands thoroughly as required. THere is a certain point when you are no longer contagious so ask your DR for advice.