Unless there is some good medical reason as to why it's unlikely you will have a VBAC I'm completely shocked as to why that would be said to you!! I had a VBAC almost 2 years ago and will go for my second VBAC in a couple of months. It can be done but like it's been said you need to surround yourself with positive people and thoughts. I recommend hypnobirthing as an invaluable tool to help with the mental and relaxation side of things. I hope you get your VBAC if that's what you're aiming for!