Ouch!
I have never been stitched. Been VERY lucky
With DD1 I had grazes, with DD2 I had a first degree tear. They considered stitching, but decided it'd heal better on its own. I tore 'up' too. I felt it happen. I was face down over the end of the bed.
With DS I had nothing!! OMG to wee with out pain after child birth!! BLISS! I don't know how I got that lucky, but I'm proud of myself!