Ouch, ouch, ouch. I has a 2nd degree tear that went 'up' not 'down'- four stitches, one that was directly next to my clitoris, and a catheter for 24 hours. I'm not so much scared of tearing, but I am sacred of tearing in the same place.

What are the chances of that? Do you tear in the same place twice? (sorry Kim I'm hijacking your thread here for a sec )
With all 3 babies i tore in the exact same spot!