We're doing this ... Ziggy will be giving DS a little box filled with playdoh pots and tools, a book and a toy sheep, and that will be a special box which comes out only for him to play with when mummy is feeding Ziggy.

DS will come with a little gift for Ziggy too.

If he realises that Ziggy is too little to have bought him a gift, then he'll also know that he didn't buy/organise the one he's giving, so we don't envisage that being an issue ...

But I don't think he'll be thinking about that, really! I'm not convinced that he understands that we're having a baby at all ... though he is very fond of kissing my tummy at the moment