With DD I was in the room on my own as the midwifes told me I had ages to go - I went to the toilet as like many of you I had a desire to use the toilet!! Then I pushed a bit harder than thought and blood went everywhere. I called the midwife and they said "you're not ready honey", so I stood by the nurses station and flooded the floor. I don't think the nurses had moved so quick all night - hee hee. DD arrived 15mins later!!

When the urge came I had no control and whatever came out was coming out.
Tess.