Thanks for that Julie, but I might be a bit late to do any workshops. I am 38 weeks tomorrow..

After our early labour a few weeks ago, and the options given, DH and I had been discussing what would happen.. Our biggest fear kept going back to complications with the 'small pelvis'..

The m/w's at the hospital and the ob's m/w that I saw last week (she also works on the labour ward at the hospital) said that if I go into spontaneous labour that they will not get the ob in until I am either having complications or baby is about to be born.. And they will not let an ob push for a ceaser if the mother is labouring well and no complications present..

We have also decided that if we reach the 39 weeks that ceaser is booked for, then we will just go with it. We know what is involved with the ceaser and the selfish side of us is happy to go with the 'devil we know'. But if this little one does decide to come in the next week, we will just decide at the time the best option..

But again, thanks for your advice.. Who knows DH may talk me into a 3rd baby?