WDYT of this, im a bit horrified...

[slyder]

3, I came back to this thread when I saw that slyder had posted, assuming it was all over and done with, to react quite strongly to his words, I walked away from my computer shaking and ended up having a good cry, I was VERY ****ed off but made myself calm down and actually think about WHY, before I came back to post.

Crikey. I have a gift I think. I don't get why this happens. I know I don't wrap my posts up in :hugs: and "huns" and dilly dally around the point and whatever, but I'm just one opinion in a community of many thousands. It's the Internet, if you don't like my opinion (which you invited) just call me a knob and move on. I'm cool with that. I can't stand the thought of making a woman cry because of something I said in an open and honest fashion without any malice or ill will. I can't deal with that. Sometimes I nearly walk away from this place all together because I just can't comprehend the sensitivities and the blow ups and the fact that so many strident views are passable here, but a differing opinion (expressed without fluff) is so intensely offensive. Anyway, Slyder sook ends here.

I feel as if some of you have just jumped to conclusions about how I have treated her and my brother. THAT is what saddens me, and angers me, but you know what, I probably havent made my OP very clear in that respect and on a forum it is all to easy to jump on your high horse (as I have done) and jump to conclusions as you dont know the full story, only what I have written.

No high horse here, not even a medium sized one; just working with what I was given.

Anyway, God, it's just my opinion and you specifically asked people what they thought so I said...

Peace out.