Wow Ladies, thank you so much for your responses, you have truly made me feel like I am not a massive Dragon. In all honesty we would not fly to them maybe for Christmas or something, but not straight away. I think after a big discussion last night with DH we might keep thinking about it, and when we have the scan next Thursday (eeeeekkkkkk, so close) we will call them all with the news, and discuss the plan with them then. I am thinking maybe we will ask exactly what dates they want to come for, and how long they intend on staying for. I will then tell them I will need to get back to them on that one, and discuss options with DH. Then call them back and tell them sadly this is the way it is going to have to go, like it or leave it. I have everything crossed I get a better reaction from them than what I did from my Mother last time, but if not then I have the right to tell them to change their tune or NO-ONE will come. I guess I am just hurt that certain people just "assume" they are more important than the others, and never once asked what we would like. Rather they would just go ahead and plan what is happening off their own backs.

Oh well, should be interesting next week, I'll let you all know how it goes thank you so much for helping, I really appreciate it x