Sorry I haven't read all the replies but all I can say is that this is your baby. You created the special one and you are going to be looking after him/her so you need time to get used to it all. The early days are so special and tiring that you need to really embrace it all. As lovely as it is having other people around to share the love, you also don't want to feel pressure of keeping anyone else happy aside from youself and your little one.

My MIL & FIL live in the UK and didn't come to meet our man until he was 3 months. Both parties decided that any earlier it would be a waste as the baby doesn't interact much. Given the distance it's not like they can come to visit often. Perhaps you can play this card? "The longer the leave it the more love you'll get" Personally as much as it would kill them to wait 6 weeks to meet him/her when they are the first to see one of the first smiles, it will be worth it.

Good Luck!

xxx