Induction is NEVER your only option if baby and you are healthy.
Having had both - a c/s and vac extraction, I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that a c/s is NOT easier on bubs, not easier on you and there is no way in hell I would consent to a cs over a vac extraction if I had to choose again. Hindsight is a wonderful thing. (Even after another 28 hour labour)
If they are using the ventouse, then bubs is all but (if not already) crowning. Going for a cs is cutting ff your nose to spite your face (all things being equal and healthy this is).
I would like to let you know too there is a HUGE difference between the ventouse and forceps. The thought of someone using forceps on my baby led me to think the same way as your acupuncturist. Having to have a cs regardless first time around, it doesn't stop the ned for forceps - they will more often than not need to use them to pull baby out via the cs anyway - especially if bubs is further engaged or in a difficult position to pull out. So no joy avoiding it simply by opting for a cs.
Most doctors will NOT use forceps first, the ventouse is first port of call. It is much gentler and much easier on both you and bubs, and does not require an episiotomy most of the time. You would not even be able to tell looking at my DD now (10 days PP) that she had a ventouse used on her.
Unless there is a medical reason - DO NOT be induced - That is why you had a crap time of it last time, if bubs were ready, you would have laboured yourself.
Unless there is a medical reason - DO NOT opt for a cs based on what happened last time - all births are different, your body is different, and as I said, it will not actually avoid forceps. Major abdominal surgery unless medically indicated, is NEVER the best option for you, hence by extension it is never the best option for baby.
I find it amusing that the people to usually come up with these comments are women who have never birthed, or never actually had a c section themselves. In other words, if they haven't BTDT, smile, nod and walk away - they have no clue.
Anyway, I am rambling. But seriously, There is no reason to be induced in a healthy pregnancy, prior to 42 weeks, and even then there are other options available to you.
Do you plan on having other kids? If you do, then avoid a CS like the plague it is.
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