hi girls

my first bub was a 3rd degree tear (warning TMI) i tore all the way to the anus, which basically meant i had one hole, the reason being when he was crowning the midwives told me i needed an episitomy, so they got ready for that, after TWO pairs of blunt scissors the 3rd pair he finally came out, the midwives keep walking out of the room to get more scissors each contraction.That is why i had such a servere tear, i was stiched up by the doc, and was on antibiodis, and had to have stool softener, so i would not burst when i finally went, and i had to sit on a blow up donut cushion, but i recovered ok.