When I had DS I stayed with IL's so I was closer to the hospital. Ex stayed home for work & had to travel 2 hours to the hospital, but he had a car & was able to do that.

The only other person I know who's been in the same situation as you, had c/s for both her babies. She made that decision based on her DP's time off. I asked how she felt about that & she said that it didn't matter to her. She did what she needed to do for her family & to have her DP there for the births. So that worked for them.

Maybe prepare yourself for that fact that he might not make it & have another support person lined up JIC?