I dunno. I think its just her. I'm 99% sure there's no depression. I know it shows in different forms, but she's ok in every other way.
She isn't hung up on it so much, just regrets not getting it. When we were talking the other night & I said that I have a fear of ending up with a c/s, she actually said that she'd rather have that choice instead of having 'down there' ruined
She said herself, she's just not really the mothering type. She wants to get back to work asap. Sitting home with a baby doesn't appeal to her at all.
Yes, she has every right to rely on her family for support, but she just over does it. I spoke to the health nurse about her first baby, coz she had hardly left the house at all at 6 month old (by that I mean literally probably 3 times for what ever dr appointments she had etc) & was left just sitting in front of the tv in a rocker all day.