To get the birth I so desired for my vba2c I had to fight every step of the way, even when I arrived at the hospital just 2hrs before he was born, still fighting, so at this time the word "surrender" came to me a lot, I had fought so much for what I wanted but then it was time to surrender to what was imminent - birth.
During the ctx's and labouring at home I often thought "Each contraction is a step closer to my baby" I visualised my baby being closer and closer to coming out of my vagina everytime I had a big ctx.
i follow the good pain, it's going to bring somrthing good and the fact that i can do it, and well men can't i'm not a outward person even during labour.
but one thing i hve always said to myself i s that i can do it because its too late to go back or get scared now should of thought about that 9 months ago so just suck it up and get on with it
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i'm not a outward person even during labour.
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