What's birth like in Australia?

[Sweeties]

Gosh how long were you in Malaysia for and was this a kampung or in an iban community? Hehe am finding out more in this thread about what the birthing scene is like in my current backyard. It already sounds quite different to the public and private hospital birth scene in Malaysia.

[sloane]

i gave birth to DS in a public hospital. i was induced & had constant monitoring as well as being on a drip. despite this, i was able to request a wireless monitor so, while i was still attached to the drip, i could move around. i was encouraged to be in positions other than on my back, on the bed & was able to request (and have) a ball to sit on. this time (still public but diff hospital) i have been offered the opportunity to hire a TENS machine and also encouraged to take part in physio classes before the birth.

despite being induced & being hooked up to various machines, the midwives made clear that they would not be offering pain relief unless i asked about it - they left the decision to me to actually request rather than just offering (i think this is fairly standard?).

[NaeNae]

As OP have said it really depends on the hospital and the care givers.

I have been fortunate enough to have given birth in a fantastic rural hospital that offer ALL types of things to ensure the mothers birth of her baby goes smoothly. Pain relief options can include the gas, sterile water injections, pethadine, TENS machines, Epidurals etc. they have showers and large baths in all the labour rooms, fit balls, matts, beds, monitoring machines, you can bring in electric oil burners, music, they can dim the lights anything really.

The ONLY thing they won't allow is a water birth. Once you start pushing you must get out from the bath and I think my shower was turned off at that point but I wasn't paying attention to that

I only had midwives and hubby in with me and a Dr came in to stitch me up post delivery,

Again not every place allows so much freedom, though so I count my blessings.

Nae x

[trishalishous]

Gosh how long were you in Malaysia for and was this a kampung or in an iban community? Hehe am finding out more in this thread about what the birthing scene is like in my current backyard. It already sounds quite different to the public and private hospital birth scene in Malaysia.

i lived there for 2 years but spent 5 months a year there over 10yrs (we didnt go last year with a newborn, but are going dec-march)
the ladies i supported were in the kampung. big difference to the hospital scene! dhs family is well off, and all went private, but all had loads of intervention.

[onthefly]

Our first was at a private hospital with a "pro-natural" OB (by reputation). Well, we ended up being pushed into an induction (post-dates) and laboured under the ineffectual care of complete strangers (never met midwives before), having had to argue with the OB to try and control the way our induction proceeded. There was a lot of stuff that was just done as it was routine and we were unable to assert ourselves at the end (ignored, disrespected etc - as can more easily happen when you're cared for by strangers).

Second time went through a public homebirth program. We had our own midwife, who we got to know well and built a good relationship with. And even though I only met our backup midwife once before the birth, we spent an hour chatting and I felt realyl comfortable with her. They were great and we felt very well supported and safe. Even when we transferred to hospital they were there for us and I felt safe, knowing that I was cared fro by someone that knew me and really 'cared' for me.

Neither labour & birth was straight forward, but second was much more satisfying for me - primarily because I knew that we gave my DD the best birth we could, whereas I cannot say the same for my son.

It seems a lot of carers in the maternity system don't really respect mother's right to determine what happens. There's some sort of presumption of incompetence once you have a baby inutero or something Some are fabulous of course, but the lack of continuity of care or care with a known midwife (in may places) really hampers their ability to help mothers also. (In Perth, for eg, you can only get care with a known midwife if you plan a homebirth!)

[Sweeties]

It's eye-opening so far... to know how much choice there is in Australia! Can I ask how much communication is given by the staff to the parents regarding procedures and drugs before they are performed or administered?

Here where I am, informed consent is basically non-existent unless you educate yourself hugely + find an obgyn who really will accept your wishes (which doesn't always happen during the birth) + fight fight fight fight fight.

Examples - waters broken without any discussion at 3cm dilation; cytotec being prepared for VBAC mother who is at 9cm dilation; pethadine injection without any discussion prior.

[HotI]

It's eye-opening so far... to know how much choice there is in Australia! Can I ask how much communication is given by the staff to the parents regarding procedures and drugs before they are performed or administered?

Depends where you are birthing, and who the staff are on the day. On paper, they follow informed consent principles, the reality is often different.

[NaeNae]

Again it depends on your hospital and circumstances too.

My last birth was a VBAC, I had excellent MWs who were supportive of my choices and knew well before hand that unless under emergency situations was I to be offered anything other than gas. I knew going in that it would be in both mine and my babies best interest to be monitored throughout and I was prepared to kiss my vbac goodbye should the need arise.

I actually asked at one point to be examined to see how far dilated I was but the next thing I was pushing so it was a bit late for that.

BUT - they cannot just "go ahead" and do anything without consent unless the mother was unconcious. Well thats how it is at my hospital. They cannot administer drugs without consent as the patient could very well be allergic. If they did they would be up for a law suit! Though in saying that there are circumstances where the risk to mother and baby can out weigh the consent thing.

With my first baby,born by emergency ceasar, I was told what the Drs thought SHOULD be done and given the option to do things my way. I chose the Drs way. I had to sign a consent form before they administered the Epi. I was told what I was drinking when I had to neutralise the contents in my stomach and the next day when I had drips and cathedars, I demanded they take them out or I was going to do it myself.

I guess to comparing two different countries systems and methods is not very fair either. We have relatively good health care here in Australia compared to other nations and the very fact that we CAN choose is nothing to be sniffed at. The other thing too is some women choose NOT to educate themselves and leave every decision to the care givers. They believe the staff will always do the right thing...which is not always the case.

Can I ask you something ........Are you planning on birthing here in Australia?

I am curious to know why you are curious about our systems etc and how they differ to yours I mean obviously there are restrictions etc in place for women over there but how is knowing what our options here in Aust goingto benefit yourself or other mothers over there (if that makes sense at all).

I am a curious kitten

[HotI]

BUT - they cannot just "go ahead" and do anything without consent unless the mother was unconcious. Well thats how it is at my hospital. They cannot administer drugs without consent as the patient could very well be allergic. If they did they would be up for a law suit! Though in saying that there are circumstances where the risk to mother and baby can out weigh the consent thing.

Unfortunately, these things have happened to BB women- procedures done without consent, drugs given without consent. And actually proceeding with a law suit is so incredibly difficult that it rarely happens.

A woman should always have the right to refuse medical treatment.

[NaeNae]

Unfortunately, these things have happened to BB women- procedures done without consent, drugs given without consent. And actually proceeding with a law suit is so incredibly difficult that it rarely happens.

A woman should always have the right to refuse medical treatment.

BB women or not they STILL have the right to know what is being done and STILL have the option to say no.

It does happen that medics play god and don't consider the womans right of choice ... as I said in my quoted part of the post, I was referring to my particular hospital. They do not do things without consent unless a woman is unconcious or unable to make that call herself.

[Cranky Kitten]

There is such a wide variety of experiences and options here. I went through the public system with DD 9 and a bit years ago and felt much more "pushed" into things during her birth - I was advised to have a pre-emptive epidural as I was being induced and was just told how the induction would progress rather than being encouraged to let each step take effect before moving on to the next etc.

I recently had my son in the private system and cannot fault my experience at all - my OB was fantastic and fully supportive the entire way of my desire to do things as naturally as possible, even when this didn't entirely go according to plan and I needed to be induced again and wound up with an assisted delivery - he explained *why* intervention was necessary and because we had built that relationship over the course of my pregnancy I felt I could trust him completely. I hadn't met my midwives prior to labour but they were all fantastic (I had about 8 over the course of 2 days) and treated me with the utmost respect and care. DH and I had the final say over everything that happened and needed to give consent to any procedures/drugs etc