i've been asked a couple of times "how the birth went" - nothing specific or pointed, more about opening up the conversation if i wanted to go there. i just say we had a c/s, and we got our girl - doesn't matter that she came out through the sunroof!

i will share with some people what happened, and not with others - all depends on how it's asked. i don't find anything offensive about it personally - but then, i've faced a lot of questioning from people in regard to AC/IVF as i'm not someone that has hidden that from anyone - so i guess i see it as a follow on... people are curious by nature - for a LOT of people, it seems like a way for them to discuss their own experiences more than to listen to mine...