I know there's actually no way to say for sure! But just want to know if it's likely to be? I know second births are usually faster but is that only for a vaginal birth? Last time I was in labour for around 35hrs and then ended up having an emergency c/s. So bc I had a c/s does that mean it's like my body hasn't given birth and it won't be faster??
Having such a long labour and then a c/s on top of that was just terrible. I was exhausted for weeks and so sore and couldn't do anything for DD I want a VBAC this time but am scared of it going on for that long again and then ending up with a c/s anyway. I have to try anyway. But I feel like if things are taking ages again maybe I should stop and just have a c/s because it might be easier to recover after. Probably not though. Ugh, I wish I had a crystal ball and could see what would happen!
Your baby may not have ended up coming out of your vagina, but your uterus has still had lots of practice contracting and your cervix has had practice at opening, so you're ahead there.
I think the best way to prepare yourself is to make sure your caregivers, support people and birth space are all as encouraging, relaxing and supportive as possible. I've been reading Ina May and I think we tend to overlook the mind-body connection in labour and just how important it is to feel safe and secure and well supported during labour to facilitate the physcial process.
I think there is a good chance your labour will be quicker
My first labour was 37 hours and my second was 16 1/2 hours.
My third was 4 1/2 hours and I wonder if this was because I saw a chiro throughout my entire pregnancy with DD? I have pelvis probs and the chiro kept my pelvis in great shape. It was in optimal condition for labour so I wonder if this helped.
My first was 41 hours, my second was 8 hours and my third was 45 mins (though I had an emergency c/s but I made it to 9cm in that time) so it will most likely be faster. I am wondering if mine will be faster this time too ...
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