I think if you have to lie - you need a new care provider. It is our responsibility to seek out a care provider who has values similar to our own. If it's important to you not to be hassled about due dates - you need to find a health care provider that has a similar approach.

It is NEVER okay to lie about your health to someone you are entrusting your health to. It is setting up a really negative energy around the birth.

There are care providers and models of care for everyone out there - and as a health care consumer it is our responsibility to find the right one.