I'd explain to Dad, that you didn't want to upset or offend godmother so if it was ok with him, you'd like her to come over during the day, but you would prefer he was there overnight and when the kids woke up becasue they love him so much.
I'd then explain to godmother that your father has insisted on being called, and you don't want to offend him by not calling him. So you thought if it was the middle of the night he could come and then godmother could come over in the morning.
That way, they both feel special and you feel like the children are getting the best as well.
All the best for your VBA2C.
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