Not only similar feelings, but I'm contemplating not telling him when I go into labour so I don't have to worry about him being there! Then again, I don't really want the midwives there either. I just can't stand the thought of not being DH's wife, IYSWIM - I'm not only the mother of his children, I'm also his wife and a gorgeous, glamourous mystical creature... which I won't be if he sees me in that situation!