Oh that sounds good! As for Mary, I don't mind her. There are better there are worse. We had a run in once because she just made some assumptions that were incorrect. But I think they came from a sense of loyalty from a friend and she didn't wait to find out if her assumptions were correct, she just rushed in to protect. Which is admirable that she cares so much, but just silly cause she was hurtful. I think she is just passionate iykwim? Besides, who cares if I like her, what matters is if you are comfortable. I do however like Kirsten, S very much. Lovely lady . Very happy you have found some nice support. Has the circle helped you make some like minded friends? I will be back home in September from a trip away, so I can come and bring food etc .