Aw thanks ladies Sorry it was a long story, but I just wanted to write down every detail!

Josh is doing well with his little sister. He is asserting his presence in the house though to make sure we don't forget him but otherwise he's good. He's a daddy's little boy though at the moment which is a little heartbreaking for me but he'll come 'round again I'm sure Josh likes to give her kisses and cuddles and can't quite say Amelia yet so says Ameow instead - too cute.