Ava's unexpected breach home birth!

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · August 20th, 2011, 03:49 PM

thank you.

great writing. great story.

Aww i never realised you were one of the first people to comment on a BB post

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · October 7th, 2011, 05:33 AM

Happy 3rd Birthday Princess!
You make us so proud every day, we love you more than you could ever know!
Thank you for being such a gorgeous, smart, independent adventurous little girl.
We love that you like dresses and hairclips, motorbikes and mud, fishing and camping, shoes and 'pretties'!
Toilet trained by your 3rd birthday, can write your own name & DAD and kinder next year, you amaze us every day in every way!
From the start you were fast & a fighter, you still are to this day!

love you

**loulabelle** · October 7th, 2011, 06:05 AM

Happy birthday to you little girl

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**Miss.September** · October 7th, 2011, 08:32 AM

Happy birthday Miss A! Have fun celebrating today!

**HotI** · October 7th, 2011, 09:26 AM

Happy Birthday Gorgeous Girl!

Happy Birthing Day ZF, you have survived and thrived 3 years with your little girl.

The love, support and stimulation you give your girls have helped make them the bright, happy kids they are.

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · October 7th, 2011, 10:44 AM

Aww thanks ladies, thanks HotI that's beautiful!
if your bored your welcome to drop past, dp and I are out but will be home later, kids home with mum!

Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!

***Danni*** · October 7th, 2011, 11:05 AM

Omg hun you are such an inspiration!! If you went to hospital you would have been given an emergency caesar for sure! It's just so amazing how our bodies and instincts just take over!

Congratulations on the safe arrival of your precious bundle and I wish you all the best for your family's future

..... OMG LOL I just saw this was a few years ago hahaha well still an inspiration to me!!! Happy birthday little Ava

Sent from my iPhone more than likely while I should be doing something else!

**Ladylove** · October 11th, 2011, 12:11 AM

I love this story. I love how even your tone of writing sounds so calm and matter of fact. I would have been desperately scared and lonely without my hubby there!

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · October 7th, 2012, 05:14 AM

Happy 4th birthday princess Ava.
We love you more than words could ever say, your a beautiful, smart & adventurous little girl & we wouldn't change 1 thing about you!

Hope you have an amazing day princess!

I just took some panadol for a toothache, I wouldn't have been far off taking some panadol back then too.

**OceanPrincess** · October 7th, 2012, 05:34 AM

Happy birthday gorgeous girl!!! Have a great day!

Edit: can't believe I haven't commented before now, I've definitely read it! Amazing story hun!

**kitten2b** · October 7th, 2012, 06:54 AM

Such an amazing birth story

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · November 1st, 2012, 09:06 AM

Just found DD's birth CD (which i've been trying to find for ages with non luck) - listening now in tears.

my beautiful princess.
My poor mum

I also found a letter my mum wrote me that i thought i would share.

Dear ~ZF~

Sometimes i cannot express myself and put forward how i feel face to face. I want to let you know how proud of you i am. How i wish your experience was better for you. I feel so sorry for M missing out on the birth and not being by your side to support you.

I must say though that if there is an easy and hard way to do something you will always go for the hard way and you always seem to pull it off.

I want to say thank you for the experience. It was one of the scariest yet most wonderful things i have been through. Other than when Marty died i have never felt so helpless, being so far away and not being able to help you, and to listen to you in pain and know what that pain was like, the waiting and hoping bub would cry.

You are an amazing woman, i just think this same person when told where babies come from crossed her legs, cried and said she was never having kids. It is a memory that has always stuck with me as will the birth of beautiful Ava.
You are my hero and i love you very much.

Mum