Congrats Kel!! You are so not a failure! You did perfectly. I had the same thing happen with my first. I felt like a failure for so long, but you know what I still birthed her despite what some people said to me. Only people who've had a c/s know what its like. The worst part of it is the way we make ourselves feel. Give yourself a big pat on the back, you have an absolutely beautiful daughter who doesn't care how she came into the world, whether it was through the birth tunal or through the sun roof!LOL