Thankyou so much to those of you who have replied. Kate thankyou for going to so much trouble getting those other links for me. Mildez thankyou, it would be nice when the time comes around if i didn't feel the contractions very much. Rufalina i look forward to hearing from you. I am excited and scared all at the same time. I can't start trying to fall pregnant until about August. I have remitting relapsing MS so i am kind of lucky in that way. It does impact my life a great deal though. I just can't wait to be a mum.