thankyou I keep remembering little details that I'd forgotten (probably because the birth was only 2 days ago lol). When the pushing phase started, my midwife suggested that I put a finger inside my vagina and feel the babies' head. It was amazing! As she was crowning, I felt her head coming out and started saying "I can feel her head! I can feel her!" (getting teary now lol). DP filmed her being born and you can see the reflection from the mirror my midwife was holding showing her head crowning and my fingers stroking her hair. It was magic!