Seriously I don't think its drastic enough.

Emotional Abuse (bullying) is domestic violence! And I know I certainly wouldn't be putting up with it espeically in such a fragile state (that being post natal).

I would be changing the name and seeking some help in deeling with your feelings. As you are probably already exhausted emotionally and physically from having a newborn so you may not have the strength to go through all this alone.

I would be thinking also of my newborn baby and the impacts this type of behaviour could have on him, as I'm sure he won't be immune to their antics.

Goodluck!

*hugs*
Cailin