Thanks guys...

Tinks I think I might try that. Her FDC routine should be much the same as home, we've worked on it together based on her cues...but there is obviously something different there...

MantaRay, thank you, so reassuring And good to know the night feeding is normal... I wondered if I needed to change her around... I will see if I can stick it out I think.

MamaPan glad to hear things have turned around a bit with J. How did you go weaning him at night? ATM I am thinking I will stick it out a bit, but if it gets too bad I will have to wean at least one of her feeds (we are doing around 3 ATM).