Oooh ooo one other thing I forgot

We tried her on the bottle after a BF, about 15 min after, so that she was content/full from that as it was the first time she was going to be having EBM I thought that by offering when she wasn't actually due for a feed, ravishing and getting upset wanting boob. She took about 20-30ml, but it made it a little less stressful for her

And good luck, I hope you find something that works, and she will get there, in her own way and time