thanks for the support ladies
Well the good thing is she is drinking formula, the only thing i could get my hands on in a sample size was s-26 gold and NAN HA,as i didnt want to go and buy a tin JIC kwim,
so far she took the s-26 with no dramas, im trying to work it in slowly as my boobs, well boob i should say (my left one doesnt make much milk and all so my right one makes ALL the milk pretty much) was super sore from just missing that one feed, and i express at night time (was doing that to make sure i had EBM on ahnd for when i leave her with MIL or if she is unusually hungry.. she went through that stage) ill be stopping the expressing at night time which im sure will be painful for awhile.
Im really going to try and continue bfing, even if i have to do both. i want the best for my baby obviously, its such a hand decision to make.

the other thing is the pros and cons of bfing and ffing, as my FIL pointed out. the stuff around with bottles or the pain of my bbies, i dont want to be selfish but i guess i dont have much of a choice lol.
Thanks again for your help and support ladies xxx