I think she's saying its important that a woman have the right to choose what is more convenient. My opinion on her last comment was:

While i dont think childbearing and feeding should be viewed as an inonvenience, you have to accept that it changes things in your life and that its okay to be "put out" for a while, a few years of "inconvenience" isn't too much in the grand scheme of life (should you happen to find it inconvenient)