Hey there thanks sooo much for your input! makes it so much easier talking to other mums rather than fmaily that think they should just feed babies as a novalty!

xavier is doing well.. tonight i gave him 2 tea spoons of rice cereal and one tea spoon of sweet potato.. seemed to love it.
i also love the suggestion of the steamed food as an option! did u find your little ones grasped the concept of eating sooner than those who were pureed fed? just a question....

i am sticking with breast feeding first then feeding.. maybe i shall move it eariler.. xavier is a reflux bub so is upset sometimes of a night any wayt.. i would prefer the night feed because my hubby is very much wanting to be involved but works.. obviously once he is ready i will intoduce a second meal maybe breakfast or lunch!

i really appreaciate the advise and hope soon one day i can spread some words of wisdom to a new mum nervous like me!!!

thanks again! any more suggestions please throw them my way! xox