thanks girls - feel better from having the vent and also your supportive comments...
she doesnt think she knows anything about bf, it is more she just wants to be 'helpful' ALL THE TIME! she was the same last time...
and the little comments like calling each feed a 'top up' must be lingo she has picked up... grrrr
she wont ever admit she doesnt know how to do anything or needs some help to remember and then is hopeless. i was trying to be inclusive yest and asked her if she would like to bath ds2. she says 'of course' so i asked if she would like me to show her what i do... of course not.. then as soon as he started crying (bc she had him only partly in) she FREAKED out, told me i had run it too hot, and he doesnt like it etc etc... funnily when i v firmly told her to listen to me and do what i asked - ie put him fully in and float him, look into his eyes and coo at him etc he loved it - and so did she....
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
anyone sense the weekend i am having... aaah they go home tomorrow!!