HotI, I would just keep doing what you're doing. Don't let him beat up on you. As long as you've got the energy to stop him, stop him, and hopefully it will pass.

My DD jammed her finger in the bathroom door last night, and I just felt so bad for her. Was still feeling bad at 4 am so let her have her first night feed in months. Hoping she doesn't want to repeat the episode!

I'm still not loving feeding her. 90% of the time when she asks for it I'm groaning on the inside.

BG - I think it's rarely truly mutual. You've given her a wonderful gift.