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thread: Breastfeeding Chatter #17

  1. #73
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    Dec 2006
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    Kaytee, I had those comments several times - each time i asked them HOW stopping BF was going to "fix" me - how taking away a comfort item from DD was going to make life easier and less stressful for me, how adding further upheaval to the mix when her mummy is already not herself was going to help anyone. to be honest, it was BF that HELPED us get through with sanity intact - i was having to lay down after work every. single. day - and DH was having to cook - DD would come and lay down on my bed with me, and BF while DH cooked, and it was calm and easy on all of us. It was really a bonus at that point. We've had a hellish up and down 12 months (or more - and mostly downs) and to be honest, i'm glad i had BF as a "tool" to help DD cope with all the stress we were all going through

    DD is now just shy of 3y4m, and has started to wean - well, i THINK she has. Up until she got sick about a fortnight ago, she BF to sleep every night of her little life. if she didn't go to sleep on the boob, she would feed and then snuggle me to sleep. last week she was so very sick that she couldn't feed - she couldn't breathe, and the poor poppet was coughing so hard for a few days that she was throwing up all the time. she just wanted cuddles, upright, and nothing in her tummy (which i get) - i was still offering boob, but she declined all the time, so i let her guide me. as she has recovered, she has chosen not to have boob at night any more - i think she's had it once in the past fortnight. she has had morning feeds every few days. i'm not sure whether to start offering again at night , or whether i should just wait until she asks (IF she asks) - i don't mind morning feeds in bed (i like those snuggles) and we haven't had day feeds now in several months (and i won't go back to that i don't think - unless she is sick) - i'm just not sure whether our BF journey is almost over. i'm kinda torn too - not sure if i am sad it's almost over, or relieved. I am currently on leave from work so morning feeds are no biggie - she just climbs into bed when she wakes up - but i'm going back to work on Monday, so i'm not sure we'll have the same ability as she is often either just waking up or still asleep when i leave for work - if she doesnt have those morning feeds, i think my milk will dry up pretty quickly so weaning may be forced on her by circumstance

    argh - so torn!

  2. #74
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    He isn't difficult to get to sleep at all. He is a self settler, has been from about 6-7months. Not requiring a bf to sleep. I just thought he'd need it before going down. But maybe he's just full from his afternoon bf and dinner and doesn't need it anymore? I find it difficult dropping number of feeds, but maybe I just need to take his cues. I can't drop afternoon feed as he is screaming at me for it, and I don't want to deny him.

    I give him a bottle/cup of milk with breakfast after his morning feed, and he has one when at daycare too.

    Yep I've had it too kaytee, I'm getting to the point where ppl should just mind their own business. They can parent the way they want, and I'll do it my way. But sorry you've finally heard it. Hugs and keep strong.

  3. #75
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    Exactly BG, how will stopping something she clearly needs, calms her and gets her to sleep, help me stress less? I can only imagine how forced weaning would go - not pretty!

    Maybe, if E is used to the morning feed every day but not having the night one, she'll swap if she can't have the morning one? Maybe offer on Monday night and see how she goes?

    WM, sounds like maybe he is all full up. If he's not using it as comfort/to get to sleep, maybe the fussiness is a sign he doesn't need it so much anymore. You could always try a night or two without a feed and go back if it's not working

  4. #76
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    Oh, and I hear you on the sick kid not being able to feed BG! We had a week of A being sick and not being able to breathe properly. But because she still only feeds to sleep she still wanted it and she persisted. Resulted in a nightly vomit lol, it was pretty gross. She usually vomited again each morning due to swallowing boogers overnight. Ew.

  5. #77
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    Dec 2006
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    i think E got sick of the night time feed making her sick - after 8 chucks in the space of four hours, she was just too sick to try again. and i guess i'm not pushing the issue of night feeds while she is still a bit chesty/snotty cos i don't want her to go back there. she has been dragging her old spew rags around with her for the past week and coughs in to them cos she is scared of being sick everywhere. poor bugger. i know milk would possibly sooth the burn but it wasn't what she wanted so we left it

  6. #78
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    Jan 2011
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    Ladies hello! I have a question re water consumption. I've been giving DD (7.5 months old now) a little water from a sippy cup after her meals, but she really guzzles it down (she has to work to get it out as it is one of those cups you suck to extract water, it doesn't just flow out). I give about 30-40 ml after the meals and I'm not sure if she guzzles because she's thirsty or just because it is there? How much should I give her? I started with the water because some of her poos were not pellet like but more 'compacted' than usual and I've noticed she's taking less milk from me. I alternate solids with breast feeds.

  7. #79
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    I left a bottle of water out constantly for DS. He too had issues with hardening up due to food, this fixed it right up. As my DS got closer to one he dropped to 4 feeds a day. I don't think you have to worry about your LO drinking water instead of bf, it just might stop the ones where they just want a quick drink.

    I think the mchn recommends before they're 1 you offer a bf before food, and after they're 1 you offer afterwards or when they request it.

  8. #80
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    Thanks WM. I've not filled her cup to the top to test my theory but I feel like she'd drink whatever was in there, not just what she needs.

  9. #81
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    DS did that too for a while as it was new. It Will just lead to more weeing. it will calm down once its not so new and exciting.

  10. #82
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    An interesting article i found on breastfeeding babies up to 6 months http://pediatrics.aappublications.or...17/3/e387.full

    full article at the link

    Volume and Frequency of Breastfeedings and Fat Content of Breast Milk Throughout the Day

    Jacqueline C. Kent, PhDa,
    Leon R. Mitoulas, PhDa,
    Mark D. Cregan, PhDa,
    Donna T. Ramsay, PhDa,
    Dorota A. Doherty, PhDb,c,
    Peter E. Hartmann, PhDa



    OBJECTIVE. We aimed to provide information that can be used as a guide to clinicians when advising breastfeeding mothers on normal lactation with regard to the frequency and volume of breastfeedings and the fat content of breast milk.

    METHODS. Mothers (71) of infants who were 1 to 6 months of age and exclusively breastfeeding on demand test-weighed their infants before and after every breastfeeding from each breast for 24 to 26 hours and collected small milk samples from each breast each time the infant was weighed.

    RESULTS. Infants breastfed 11 ± 3 times in 24 hours (range: 6–18), and a breastfeeding was 76.0 ± 12.6 g (range: 0–240 g), which was 67.3 ± 7.8% (range: 0–100%) of the volume of milk that was available in the breast at the beginning of the breastfeeding. Left and right breasts rarely produced the same volume of milk. The volume of milk consumed by the infant at each breastfeeding depended on whether the breast that was being suckled was the more or less productive breast, whether the breastfeeding was unpaired, or whether it was the first or second breast of paired breastfeedings; the time of day; and whether the infant breastfed during the night or not. Night breastfeedings were common and made an important contribution to the total milk intake. The fat content of the milk was 41.1 ± 7.8 g/L (range: 22.3–61.6 g/L) and was independent of breastfeeding frequency. There was no relationship between the number of breastfeedings per day and the 24-hour milk production of the mothers.

    CONCLUSIONS. Breastfed infants should be encouraged to feed on demand, day and night, rather than conform to an average that may not be appropriate for the mother-infant dyad.
    Last edited by HotI; October 3rd, 2012 at 07:54 PM.

  11. #83
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    Sep 2010
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    Hey ladies.
    I did start a thread in Children's Medical Conditions, about this but thought I'd pop in here and ask anyway.

    Has anyone had any experiences with nut allergies and breastfeeding?
    I had some cashews and fed Colby a while later and he came out in a fiery red rash across his cheeks and chin. It looked awful. It hung around for about an hour or 2 and then left.
    The cashews were the only thing I'd eaten.

  12. #84
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    Someone please tell me it is all worth it Im trying to not get down but my body really hates me. I EBF to 6 months and then introduced solids. I got my period EXACTLY 28 days later and was very dissapointed that I wasnt one of those moms who didnt have to have a period. It wasnt a problem until about 4 months when I believe I started ovulating. Now, ever since (she is 8.5 months) my supply drops dramatically during ovulation and my period. During that time she is so angry and scratches me and screams all day. I just miss feeling that loving connection when I fed her...now I feel like crap during those times.

  13. #85
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    Oh TM that sounds so frustrating. I didn't know that happened actually. No advice, just a hug- I think I'd feel the same way.

  14. #86
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    Does your LO take EBM? Some EBM over those days, on top of BF, might help get you both through it.

  15. #87
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    Oct 2007
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    Sorry, Charlotte i don't know much about nut allergies and bf. will ask around for you though.

  16. #88
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    Sep 2010
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    Thanks, it really worried me.

  17. #89
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    yeah we give her some EBM on those days. I just wish I didnt have too

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