I felt very let-down (pardon the pun). I had a breast reduction a couple of years ago and prior to the birth I felt there was no support for me. Then after the birth it was "you should feel the let-down" and "your milk will have come in by now". But if you don't know how it feels, how can you say yes or no, you do or don't?

II would have preferred to be referred to ABA or go to a clinic *before* the baby came, or immediately, while I was in hospital still.