: Were you adequately prepared for breastfeeding with your FIRST baby?

109.
  • No, I was not prepared at all.

    21 19.27%
  • I wasn't as prepared as I should have been.

    38 34.86%
  • I was somewhat prepared, I felt I had enough at the time.

    32 29.36%
  • I was very well prepared.

    18 16.51%

thread: Do you think that you were adequately prepared?

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  1. #1
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    May 2007
    3,341

    I didnt like the way that breastfeeding started.
    I understand that i gave birth within 10 minutes of arriving in the labour ward - i had no idea who the midwife was (or the other 6 people in the room watching) were.
    I was still in my clothing (minus pants obviously lol) and she just ripped my top up, unclasped my bra, and grabbed my boob in her hand and threw bub on and left.
    She didnt even say anything to me or anything! I was little upset by all this and did not see her at all afterwards as it was change of shift an hour later.

    i discharged myself 6 hours post birth and drove back to my local hospital where i figured out how to breastfeed and had some nice mw's on nightduty talk to me about it!

    I did however have one Mw (who had never had kids b4) when i asked for panadol cause i hurt all over say that if it is for sore boobs then i need to get used to it and panadol isnt the right thing to help with the pain... not impressed to be told this!

    But i figured it out myself - found my local ABA group and it made things a lot better and easier!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    I answered I was somewhat prepared, I felt I had enough at the time.

    I did SO MUCH research, and classes, and preparation. I paid alot of attention to attachment, and I think that helped, we have never had any problems there. I agree with Rory, the book "Breastfeeding.....Naturally" was a great resource. As was, and is, BellyBelly.

    I was, however, not prepared for a premature baby, and what that meant in regards to breastfeeding. I had very little info, and so was mistakenly guided by the health professionals in feeding my DS. As a result we have had a whole world of BFing troubles, but I am proud to say that we have stuck it out are still going .

    Knowing what I know now, I would have done things VERY differently. But you can only go with what you know at the time. Next time WILL be different