Heehee... it was a rash generalisation Alan! One borne out of frustration that despite DH not having done much feeding at all he suddenly became the expert yesterday. Despite pointing out (gently of course) that DD and I had had over two weeks to get into a pattern of a sort he decides to experiment! He did it again last night with the night feed (not until 4am... she loves her sleep!) and she was so unsettled it took forever to settle her again... well forever in her terms - about an hour and a half. I actually thought that lititle exclamation only happened in my head - not in my post - so please don't take offence. I am very grateful for all and any advice regardless of the gender of origin. I just wish DH was more like you!