This thread might be a little premature, but I want to get it right from the start, not have to fix something later.

I think DS might be dropping his bedtime feed. The last 2 nights he has been feeding to the point where he is almost asleep then sitting up and stuffing around for 5-10 mins, then he'll get whingy, I'll ask him if he wants a cuddle and he'll lie down and cuddle in, almost go to sleep, then ask for boobies again, feed for a few mins and go to sleep.

Does it sound like he's figuring out how to settle without it? Or is this something else - another phase?
If he is dropping his bedtime feed, what do I do to make sure it's a smooth transition?
How do I settle him so it doesn't take 2 hours to get him to sleep?

He has only ever fed to sleep, I have no idea how else to get him to sleep :/