Fish fingers, chicken nuggets etc ok for 13 month old?

[sunshine_sieben]

I would say, most of us are really, really busy.
And count me in on the laziness. As I said, cleaning is not my strength. I wish I could be a good housekeeper, but I'm not. As long as it's not a serious health hazard, I'm happy - lol.

By the way, i do totally take my hat off to mums like DB who work full time. DH and I have our own business but these days I only really do the books. And I can only imagine how hard it is when you come home from a long day's work and you want to spend some time with your kids. But at the same time, there are dinners to be made, lunches to be packed, clothes to be washed, kitchens to be cleaned. Then it's finally the weekend but I'm sure there's still more housework waiting.Oh, and you might want to spend some time with your spouse, too. And then there are friends and family. I honestly don't know how you do it. and I mean that from the bottom of my heart.
Sasa

[danniellabella]

By the way, i do totally take my hat off to mums like DB who work full time. DH and I have our own business but these days I only really do the books. And I can only imagine how hard it is when you come home from a long day's work and you want to spend some time with your kids. But at the same time, there are dinners to be made, lunches to be packed, clothes to be washed, kitchens to be cleaned. Then it's finally the weekend but I'm sure there's still more housework waiting.Oh, and you might want to spend some time with your spouse, too. And then there are friends and family. I honestly don't know how you do it. and I mean that from the bottom of my heart.
Sasa

Yep, my nights are busy.
I get home and usually because DD is so clingy because she hasn't seen me all day I just give her tinned baby food rather than making her wait while I cook and getting annoyed with her because she's grabbing my legs and getting too close to the oven, besides, often we eat dinner at 6:30 or 7 or 7:30 and DD is hungry for dinner as soon as we get home from daycare at 5:45 because I've asked the day care lady to not give her any food after 4:30pm so I can give her dinner and spend some time with her. She has her bath at about 7pm and I try to get her into bed by 7:30/8pm. Then I have to get the washing hung out, pack her bag for daycare the next day, pack my gym bag (I have a gym at work so I go at lunch time everyday), make sure DH's shirt is ironed, unload the dishwasher from the night before and load the dirty dishes and run the thing, have a shower, have some idea of what I want to wear the next day, do a bit of cleaning, catch up on the forums and facebook, try to squeeze in a bit of reading, usually that's done during a toilet trip...my 5 mins alone

[Kazbah]

Danni, I know you're having to take on a lot of your household load, but surely your DH can iron his own shirt?

A really, really quick & healthy meal is some cooked pasta (10 mins in the microwave - fill a microwave bowl with kettle-boiled water, chuck in some pasta and nuke on high for 10 mins) and stir through a tin of flavoured tuna, and some grated cheese. My Pip loves it. Another easy snack for toddlers is cooked pasta, cold. Cook some up and put it in the fridge, sealed. Just give it to Jazz to snack on. Fresh fruit is easy to cut up for her to snack on, and if you give her the food to nibble on while you're preparing the main meal, she'll really enjoy it - put her highchair in the kitchen and just pat her head etc each time you go past.

For really nutricious toddler frozen food, try organic bubs (that's the company name - google them) - they deliver to your home / work etc and are really good value.

Do what you need to to work full-time, enjoy your little girl and that's the main thing. Do it your own way, you'll work it out for you.

[Counting Days]

Danni you sound like my type of woman, I also worked full time
homemade really who has the time I tell you only SAHM's if they can do it good luck to them
as for the rest of us we are doing our best and if that comes in a packet of chips nuggets or anything else a couple of times a week then so be it

we do it because we want to / have to
want to be part of the working world

[Girl-23]

Hi Danni,

You are a Super-career-mum-woman. Obviously you are trying very hard to provide for your daughter's future. Having said that, my daughter is 10 months, I recently started feeding her homemade chips (fries). I peel the potatoes and chop them. She loves it. Of course I don't do that everyday but probably once a week. Have you thought about preparing food the night before? And perhaps store it in the freezer or fridge? For example, marinate chicken, fish or meat night before. You can serve it with vegetables, rice or pasta. Whatever tickles your fancy? You can do that instead of ironing your husband's shirt, unloading the dishwasher. I understand you want to spend time with your DD but 30 minutes of cooking something healthy and nice for her is also good. I think its fine feeding her nuggets, fish fingers, etc.

[Muffy]

DS has eaten chicken nuggets, fish fingers and everything else thats bad for him, but to be honest im happy to give him those foods because at least i know he is actually eating something!!
and like someone said (cant remember who sorry!!) its not like you are giving it to them morning noon and night.
Dont feel bad xx

[Sammiejane]

Just to add, MJ eats EVERYTHING that we eat, curries, quiche, pasta, lasagne, roast etc et.
If i am working (this week 5 days) i use the evening and part of the other day to make up extras.
The other day (when i got home from work) i made a white sauce (butter melted in pan, stir in flour then milk) added cheese and tuna, i also at the same time boiled veggies til they were quite soft (not the best for nutritional value by hey they veggies) then chuckedn them in the pot with the tuna etc etc and mashed them up.
Cook some spag/pasta and serve over, MJ loves this and so does DH who is a big foody.
I made a huge batch, so not only did we have it for dinner, but i cooked extra pasta, stired the sauce throgh, chucked it in a dish, sprinkled with cheese and tada, pasta bake for another night (plus a smaller one for the freezer too)

I know you are busy, maybe Matt can help a lottle more so that you can all have a nice meal, even once or twice a week, it doesnt have to be gourmet, quiche, pasta bake, spag, but its healthy and you can have it together..

dont take any of this as criticism hun, you are doing a great job

[*charmalea*]

those foods are fine in moderation (if you buy them from a supermarket )

BUT i make my own guilt free and so cheap and i dont care how much he eats of it !!

chicken breast / Fillet of fish - cut into cubes

eggs - cracked and mixed in a bowl

PANCO - japanese bread crumbs (in the supermaket in the asain/ bread crumb isle (about $3-4 a box)

and then dip in to panco , dip in to egg , dip into panco .

place on a baking tray spary lightly with oil and 15 mins in a pre heated 200 - 250 oven and your done !!!

so easy and cheap ... just add sauce ..

you can reaheat in the oven to keep them crispy.

i take them to shooping centres and reheat in the parents room so ds can have nuggets for lunch !
no $7 happy meal for 3 measly nuggets !!

[Lulu]

homemade really who has the time I tell you only SAHM's if they can do it good luck to them

Preparing a big batch of meals on the weekend was how I got through working full time with three children on my own, and it wasn't that hard in the end.

DB, that bloke can iron his own bloody shirts!

[sunshine_sieben]

I agree, I would always prefer cooking a meal over ironing DHs shirts. He can do that. And he can also unload the dishwasher while you bath DD (or the other way around). You're both chipping in to bring home the bacon, so you can both chip in when it comes to running the house. You are not super-woman. You don't have to do it all and sing a song while doing it.

And putting a steak in the pan while boiling some veges seriously doesn't take any more time than putting fish fingers and chips in the oven. If you don't want to fuss with crumbing chicken strips, you could just put some lemon pepper (or my favourite, piri piri seasoning) on them and stick them under the grill or into your oven. They don't need to be crumbed.
I spend less than 15 minutes on about half of our meals during the week (the other meals are a little more time consuming, but it's rarely more than 1/2 hour. Pasta sauce is good, because it just bubbles away while you do other stuff. Same goes for stews. I know a lot of people who work full time and they just put stuff in the slow cooker in the morning and when they get home, the house smells like food!
And I also agree that just as with boxed convenience foods, you can make the freezer your best friend. I always cook for about 10 people (when making things like Pasta, Curries, Soups, Stews etc.). Most goes into individual containers for DH to take to work, but I also put about 2 dinners into our freezer to have over the next couple of weeks. So if I can't be bothered or am running out of time, I always have a TV dinner waiting for me. And as mentioned, freezing food for DD in ice cube trays makes it really easy to quickly reheat something for her. Actually much quicker than cooking chicken nuggets. Only takes a minute or 2 to reheat a few ice cubes worth, then add another couple of minutes for it to cool a little.
If she's so hungry when she gets home from day care, how about giving he a little snack? Or some milk to tie her over? I often give DD some fruit or a few cheese cubes in the afternoon. Not too much to spoil her dinner, but just enough to give her a little "entree". Or a handful of sultanas?
Cooking doesn't have to be time consuming, tedious and boring. Nobody expects gourmet 3 course dinners every night. And it doesn't have to be every night either. Maybe a couple of times a week to start with.
And you know what? You could even ask DH if he could cook one day a week.
It seriously saves soooo much money.

Sasa

[Lulu]

Get a packet of dry french onion soup and use that instead of breadcrumbs. Sprinkle it over chicken fillets then fry - so EASY and it makes you look like you worked harder than you did ssshhh!

[*charmalea*]

lulu - YUM ... i know what im making for tea ... there is a packet of FOS in the cupbaoard .. mm i want to make it now

[MamaPan]

i hope i didnt sound judgemental - i also work... cooking is my thing and i am a bit of a foodie... my house looks like a bombs hit it most of the time... and i have a cleaner!
what i wrote is my opinion, i think once in a while is fine but it isnt for me... you have some ideas here if you want them that dont take too long... you also have some people who do the same as what you suggested so i guess it comes down to what you think is best for YOUR family - not what we all do...
i hear you on being time poor and the guilt that comes with it all - so dont beat yourself up...