I am weaning my little one too. When I want to drop a feed I feed her after the meal so that she is full and just takes a little bit of breast so that i don't get engorged. Do this for a few days and you will notice you are not producing as much milk then take the feed out. Does that make sense??? So when she wakes, offer her breakfast straight away, or milk and then offer her breast so she takes a little but not as much as she used to, and your body will catch on up with not needing as much milk!