Hi there, my DD is 19 months and sounds like she doesn't eat quite that much??? I get paranoid as well and have asked a couple of diff nurses and they've all said the same...'you can only provide the healthy, varied food and it's up to them whether they eat it or not!' I still stressed after hearing this a few times but then began to watch her more closely and they were right wouldn't ya know

My DD isn't big on meat and is still slow on 'family' meals but hey I figure each day/week she makes progress, I always offer her new stuff but she's one of those toddlers who has to have something up to 20 times before it'll become something she likes (It also took me a while to realise that she needed soooo much repitition with food haha)

As Barb said they're all hugely different, sounds like she eats heaps and is getting lots of fruit & veg so don't stress. My sister has 2 x DD and they are both barely on the 'scale' - around 1-2%. It's all in the genes....if you or your DP/DH are slim/from slim build families that's where your DD gets it from. When you think about it....what the heck is the scale for??? Makes everyone paranoid if they're little one is below or above the 'norm', just be happy she's eating heaps I reckon