Hopefully the woman from HM4HB gets back to you and you don't even need the formula (or you at least don't need it as often!). Could you do a SNS kind of thing so Miss I still has the closeness when she wants it?

You're making the choice that suits your family best. Remember what you've been saying to me about the choices I made in labour? Things like working with the situation, doing what was right in the moment? Same deal here.