I am not too sure about the whole kosher thing and exactly what that means is restricted so forgive my ignorance!

I used to give Gabriella a bit of tuna as an alternative to meat, mixed in with vegies and topped with a bit of cheese (although I know you said no dairy you could do it without the cheese). I think tho I did that when she was a bit older, maybe around 10 months?

When I think about it it is hard to exclude wheat as Gaby used to have rice, couscous, little pasta bits etc... what about some egg soon? can never remember whether it is egg whites or yellows that you shouldnt give before 12 months?

Ooh what about sultanas as a snack?

As for the whole fruit thing I personally dont believe in that philosphy of giving them a sweet tooth. I think as long as their diets are balanced you should be ok.