mmmm, Trish if you can email me a little bit of history about the little one that is refusing ( i remeber reading that one of your boys is feeding fine?? but the other has been hard all along???), thinkgs like hoe feeds in the past have been & how he has been getting feeds when not from the breast. How he behaves when you try him onthe boob etc, I will see what I can find out. I don't think I am experienced enough to take on this one. Seems they are prem bubs & like you said the booklets only talk about older bubs.
I would like to be able to pass the onfo you can give me onto a more expereinced counsellor if you don't mind.....