Whatever works for you, hun.

The rule of thumb is feed, play, sleep, but it depends on your baby's rhythms!

With DS1, nothing but nothing would keep him awake after a feed. I would actually spend a significant portion of the feed unwrapping him, ticking his toes, blowing on his face, stopping for a nappy change etc, just to keep him awake long enough to *have* a proper feed.

So the feed, play, sleep thing did not work for him - not for ages.

As long as they're having time doing all three over the course of a day, don't stress.

And in those first few weeks, "play" just means interaction. It could be you talking to her while you're changing her, or cuddles, or anything like that. It will be a while before they're actually interested in toys and books.

Right now, she's most interested in you.

And your boobs.

And that's ok.