Thankyou girls!! I will write back tomorrow once I'm on my laptop, takes me forever on my phone! But the one thing I have decided is to take it slow and put some 'rules' in place... I might try and get the nightweaning sorted while Dh is here to sleep with her for the next week, then atleast I can enjoy the feeds we have during the day for a while longer one question, how do I say no boobie at night wen I am putting her to sleep by feeding her at night?! Is it confusing for them?? Shld I just say boobies are sleeping wen she wakes up for it?? Thanks x