one question, how do I say no boobie at night wen I am putting her to sleep by feeding her at night?! Is it confusing for them?? Shld I just say boobies are sleeping wen she wakes up for it?? Thanks x
That took a while for me to master DP put DS down by singing. He did it for 5 nights and then I tried. The first time I did it, it took 2 hours I sang to him, gently stroked his legs and arms. He asked for boobies and I told him they were sleeping and would wake when the sun came up. DUring the night if he asks I remind him, "remember, boobies are sleeping, you can have some when they wake up when the sun gets up". He has gotten used to going to sleep without boobies. I stopped feeding him to sleep in the bedroom and started giving him his last feed in the lounge room after his shower so he didnt associate bed with boob.

ELizabeth Pantley and Dr Jay Gordon have some lovely gentle weaning advice for co sleepers