I'm lucky in a sense no one was brave enough to say any of these things to me my sister might have made a snarky comment but I ignore her most days lol I failed my son by giving up after a week but I was determined to bf jazzy so I did she ha some formula from about 6 months but that was while I was at work one day a week and occasionally a sat night when my mum watched them coz I was hopeless at expressing but we made it to 19 months before we stopped only happened coz I got a job that was every day then I went to night shift so I just wasn't there to give her booby but I'm proud of myself and u should be too 9 months is excellent and if I happen to go and have another baby I will be aiming for longer again because it's for their benefit and I believe it stopped her from contracting whooping cough and chicken pox
Be proud and continue on we will be here to support u if other ppl don't